First Family Pregnancy

So, today we had the first announcement of a family pregnancy since our losses. A cousin of DH's. Of course the news came through my FIL (who started pressuring us to get preggo in his wedding toast). I never thought it would be this hard! I never thought I'd be one of those people who had to turn aside questions about when we were going to start a family, because I always planned on starting one right away. But here I am. Here we are. with another reason not to see the in-laws until we have a baby. Not that having a baby will make our relationship with them any easier . . .